tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post4080512171868752851..comments2023-10-28T03:09:58.585-06:00Comments on planet trans: B4 the 1st kiss: TELL your date you're transgender! What was GLAAD thinking?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-74752509202605016792013-08-17T16:13:51.017-05:002013-08-17T16:13:51.017-05:00To those who claim it is a right to keep it secret...To those who claim it is a right to keep it secret and not offer another a choice, I would ask how you would feel if you kissed someone with AIDS who told you they had if after the kiss? We know it isn't communicable by that mechanism any more than "Trans" is communicable, so no problem, right? The fact is you've been denied the right to make a deeply personal choice. Note, I ammdwaynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14296939767506826031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-86534098027020892742013-01-27T04:12:08.614-06:002013-01-27T04:12:08.614-06:00How dare you! You can't take that stance and l...How dare you! You can't take that stance and legitimately claim to be a transgender rights activist. <br /><br />Trans people re-enforcing the belief trans* women are not really women is the last thing we need. <br /><br />I tell when I feel like I want to reveal something personal about myself on a case-by-case basis. This is often after a decent amount of making out. I have never had anyonemaria welbornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10172695822760187781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-30567980918077487562010-07-17T16:37:11.241-05:002010-07-17T16:37:11.241-05:00If I have to tell my romantic interests that I am ...If I have to tell my romantic interests that I am trans before my first kiss, then I will wind up telling the whole world that I am trans. I will then be a target for trouble. A better option would be to find out if my prospective partner is transphobic first, and if they're capable of keeping my secret, and disclose after that.<br /><br />Of course, the most moral fix would be for cis Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-62451602069049488752010-07-17T02:39:09.659-05:002010-07-17T02:39:09.659-05:00I suppose GLAAD was thinking that it's horribl...I suppose GLAAD was thinking that it's horribly irresponsible to endorse the viewpoint that finding out you've kissed a trans person justifies homicidal rage. <br /><br />I guess it's good to know that the community is large enough to embrace multiple viewpoints on the "tranny panic" defense?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-84504413775953400942010-07-13T20:53:13.347-05:002010-07-13T20:53:13.347-05:00I agree with you 100% Selena. I would want to be ...I agree with you 100% Selena. I would want to be told if I was getting involved with a trans-man. I personally don't have to worry about this anymore myself because I am married but I do not advise t-girls or boys to "trick" people. It is important for you to be honest with any romantic interest or you are not being honest with youself and if they find out from any other source Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-330702033457044230.post-16806720756467155632010-07-13T11:43:55.698-05:002010-07-13T11:43:55.698-05:00My personal feeling as a Transgender person is to ...My personal feeling as a Transgender person is to be open, up front and honest, as I would in all aspects of my life. I have NOTHING to hide nor be ashamed of concerning my gender identity.<br />Having an organization or media telling me or anyone else how to live can just kiss my booty, and I expect them to disclose what is between thier legs before hand............Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11968248943239363155noreply@blogger.com