12/19/10

Transgender/Gay divorce proccess paper served: Mili*ary DADT Exclusion last straw!

PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE:

This Petition is for dissolution of marriage and it is alleged on oath as follows:

1. Petitioner resides at Any street, Every Town, Every State and has resided there since at least 1706 and (90) days immediately prior to the filing of this Petition.

2. Petitioner and Respondent were shotgunned married during the 1990's resulting in the T being assimilated into the gay acronym GLB in the USA with the marriage being recognized worldwide.

3. The parties were separated on or before September 27, 2007 .

4. There are six identities born to or adopted by the Parties. The names and dates of birth are: Questioning, Bisexual, Intersex ,Asexual, Gender gifted, Gender Queer. All were born ? years BC. The trans complainant is now pregnant with multiple identities and expressions.

5. Petitioner and Respondent are enter into an Agreement resolving all issues of the marriage, which is recorded in their Identity Settlement Agreement and Child Care Plan, a true and correct copy of which is attached to this Complaint as Exhibit �A�.

6. Petitioner is mainly unemployed and underemployed, being discriminated against during and after transition. Respondent is usually employed not directly affected by sexual affinity in the work place and now in the armed forces service of his/her country.

7. There is no reasonable likelihood that the marriage between Petitioner and Respondent can be preserved, and therefore, the marriage is irretrievably broken.

WHEREFORE, Petitioner prays for its orders:

a. dissolving the marriage between the Petitioner and Respondent;

b. dividing the marital properly between Petitioner and Respondent according to law and settling all marital and non-marital identity and expression issues of the parties and resolving child issues as specified in the attached Property Settlement Agreement and Child Care Plan;

c. and granting such other and further relief as to this Court seems just and proper in the circumstances.

Petitioner wishes to retain the umbrella identity of Transgender and not be associated with the name of "gay" or "gay agenda" upon the date of the divorce.



Transsexual Community, USA___________________________________

Signature of Petitioner

EXIBIT A:

Gay people agree not to use transgender/transsexual peoples name or identity in organization names which do not have transgender people in membership or advocate for transgender corcerns. Drag performers will now be recognized with a "gay" name if the performer identifies themselves as cisgender.

Further more, gay people commit to discontinue using 'tranny' a slanderous pejorative for revenue and commercial purposes. Gay people also promise not to use pejoratives defaming trans people in cisgender media for the purposes of creating sensationalist extrinsic controversy intended to exacerbate discord within the divorced parties.

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Many in trans community, already up in arms after Congressman Barney Franks offered his latest deceptions regarding 2010 ENDA's debacle blaming gender issues. Meaning if, transgender people had not been written (Married to gay people) in in the first place ENDA would have succeeded. Many are now calling for this Divorce so I thought I would write this petition.

And now we get left out of theDAD* repeal!



I'll Tell you what is wrong!



Which dead son or daughter is GAY Transgender?


Our exclusion from DAD* tipped the scales. Weighed heavily already with trans activists anger over the continued attempted gay assimilation and profiteering at the expense of the people under the trans umbrella has many, including myself ask, what is needed to repair this relationship?

Really then, what are we trying to repair? At best trans people are in the receiving end of of this predatory relationship.

  • We are constantly attacked with pejoratives from many in the gay community.

    • We are constantly left out of the important national equal rights progress.

      • We are blamed for the failure of civil rights by unscrupulous gay politicians.

        • The self appointed 'supposed' leaders of the trans community have lied and deceived our community about ENDA proving they are in bed with the gay power brokers.

            Sometimes goodbye is a hello. Hello to true allies who would not exclude us who would not use our accpation as a pity tool to raise money for there agenda not parody us as comical jester like clowns in booze fired fundraisers?

            When those we hold the dearest are the ones who harm us the most it's time for a change. Just ask my biological 'family', wherever they are. They could confirm I am strong enough personally to present and be faithful to a commitment for divorce.

            Its time for our trans family to do the same. We want a divorce.
          • 12/17/10

            TIME Blog, USA

            ….Transsexual International Media Examiner…. TIME blog

            Trans group forms to combat defamation and it’s about TIME!

            Source Timeblog.org

            (For group specifics and mission statement click the ‘about us’ page
            for instructions to become a contributor)

            Invitation to form and participate with TIMEblog.org A Trans
            identified and led group of advocate journalists from Australia, New
            Zealand, Canada and United States of American.

            I am writing you because of our shared passion that transgender people
            be treated with dignity.

            How many times have we been assailed by gay media with the word
            ‘tranny’ being used as a pejorative?

            How any times have we responded individually hoping for a larger
            transender community response to back us up on a offenders blog?

            How many times have we as a community been gang raped by gay media in
            articles purportedly desiring goodwill dialogue with trans people that
            in realty were thinly disguised efforts crafted to antagonize and
            dehumanize us?

            How many times have you felt as I have, powerless, when responding on
            my blog knowing good and well I was only reaching 1/10th of the
            audience as the offending gay blog?

            How many times have we watched mainstream media pickup on gay media’s
            predatory practices, parrot the offending gay media’s offensive
            behaviour therby gaining attention exponentially.

            How many times have you shared my sense of disempowerment when the gay
            organization GLAAD, as admirable an ally as they are, is the only
            organization to speak for transgender people?

            How often have we been frustrated by GLAAD’s unwillingness to confront
            Gay people and groups who are presently allowed to defame trans people
            with impunity?

            We will confront gay media without hesitation with every tool avaliable.

            I have conducted a survey of trans identified people on TransAction
            ConVergence. The results http://bit.ly/gLVkl4 of this survey provides
            us with a mandate to speak on behalf of the trans community.

            One tenet of TIME will be our vocal objection to ‘tranny’ being used
            in Cisgender media no matter whether gay or hetero.

            We will voice condemnation when religious groups denigrate us. Their
            misrepresentation and defamation of trans people in religious media is
            a major factor in for our present position in society.

            There will be occasions when issuance of statements and blog posts
            will be insufficient to bring about change. In these instances we will
            initiate email campaigns, letters to the editor of local papers and
            phone calls.

            If all else fails, protests are the last option and will be done if possiable.

            The group will be called ‘transsexual’ because the survey indicated
            that moniker is most favored for people who identify under the trans
            umbrella.

            We will further identify ourselves as exactly how we identify in the
            ‘About page’. I would like to include a contributors (thats you) page.
            You will be given the option to upload a picture and be as forthcoming
            as possiable about yourself and where you live. Remember, visibility
            is one our greatest tools in creating a sense of familiarity with and
            acceptance from cisgender people.

            Also, posting detailed information about yourself will help to silence
            our detractors of which there will undoubtedly be many and be
            forewarned, you may be targeted with misinformation and personal
            attacks, some even comming from own community!

            As a organization, banding together transgender bloggers and activists
            and armed with factual evidence of transgender sensitivities we will
            dismantle gay misogony and hetero transphobia in media. As never
            before we will have a voice.

            I see a organization run by individual bloggers and activists
            belonging to Timeblog.org each acting autonomously, Each possessing
            her/his unique abilities and passions cross posting from their own
            blogs on Time. Each contributor will be empowered with equal abilities
            to issue statements on behalf of TIME when necessary, condeming or
            commending.

            A core group of officers led by myself will reserve the authority to
            censure and/or remove contributors who do not understand the purpose
            of or abuse TIME.

            Our power united we will easily overcome our singular adversaries.
            Together we can do this.

            Hoping you will join this endeavour. We are nothing without you.

            We are unstoppable with you.

            Love,

            kelli Anne Busey
            Its about TIME!